Sunday, February 20, 2011

Whenever I step into the garden, every moment in my childhood appears in my mind. Everything in the garden is connected with every second I in the last decade. I was the little princess in this garden, as I had the right to do everything I like, for instance: built a sand castle with the sand beneath the rambutan trees, played on a swing in the sweet garden, fooled around with the pets which my grandmother possessed and so on. Every scene seems memorable and nostalgic.

I was a simple minded and imaginative girl. I used to create new thing daily to surprise my parents and grandparents. I like to laugh and happiness seems an easy thing to get from a simple matter. It is totally different if compared the life after a decade. In this moment, there are no much reasons to let myself to laugh or happy with. Although everyone still can live happily now, it seems to be quite hard to grab as compared with the childhood I have experienced before. Lastly, happiness was just as simple as ABC or one plus one we had learnt during the primary school when we were in childhood but not for a gradually growing up children.

Everything is not as simple as a child’s life after growing up gradually. It is complicated and you have to take the responsibility when you had done something wrongly. Unlike a child, though you had made any mistake, adults would just have nagged and reminded you not to repeat the mistake, everything would be settled after a smile from you as you are the queen for the whole family. You are always forgiven for any matter but not as teenager in a school or an adult in the society nowadays. You have to face the music after causing some unpredicted consequences although the mistake is not done by you. It is innocent to listen to, but this is life, whenever something happened, someone has to come out and take over the burden.

Though it pains, joy is still can be found after growing up. When you are growing up, you learnt more complicated things that you might wanted to know since you were a little girl or boy such as photosynthesis of the plant, algebra and Newton’s law. Everything is learnt through the education in school which you would never have a chance to explore and gain the knowledge in a child’s world as it is too complicated and difficult. You have no opportunity to learn these during childhood as you are sentenced that you will never understand this.

Other than that, you have the chance to widen your social circle by knowing new friends in the school and you would have the opportunity to meet true friends who can share everything together in your life. You may share the happiness or sadness you experienced and met in your life. True friends will help you while you were facing any difficulties by proposing or suggesting a good solution to overcome the problem. In such situation, it can be considered as a happy reason after growing up.

While human beings were growing up daily, their mind is becoming more mature than the day before as they gained new experience from it. Growing up is a necessity and unavoidable event for each life. Hence, face it bravely and you will have a good live when you grab a firm principle in your life. Principle will prolong and enlighten your life whenever you have met any plight as you will overcome it. Lastly, I would like to end up by advising everyone that, let us growing up happily with a positive mental attitude.

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